Mastering the Art of Relationships

an exploration of the masculine and feminine/self and other

 

 

There are no current dates

 

Available on request for groups of 3 people or more

 

Course Description

 

One of my passions for many years has been bringing the most esoteric and basic understandings of my experiential journey with infinity into the visceral real, raw and meaty creative living areas of my life. The most significant arena of creative play for me has been cultivating intimate relationships. 

 

My work with Thessa Sophia is designed to catalyse and support the natural awakening of oneself as infinite true nature; other words or terms we may use are, the unchanging, emptiness, the absolute, the void, and infinity. 

 

Whereas in many traditions the focus of awakening can end at realising yourself as true nature, we take the deepest levels of awakening and consciously explore the direct experience of nature within all areas of life. The result is a deeper understanding and insight into true nature, the actualisation and embodiment of true nature, which naturally becomes the capacity to consciously create/dream your own reality. The key being that reality is being driven and directed, birthed in becoming, by what we call true nature, and thus is ever changing and remains in continuity with infinity. 

 

We can say that we are here to create a reality that is in, but not of this world. We can say that we are focused on remembering ourselves as god-heads, as self governing individuals with the capacity to transform the paradigms of humanity beyond what has been known or experienced before. Our ultimate pathway for this is through the transformation of identity/self and remembering true nature.

Thessa has created this approach which I also teach; it is not a modality, nor a technique, but an approach that primarily uses the gateway of stillness in relationship to the body to catalyse remembering of true nature. We then navigate and explore the direct experience of true nature at the level we have remembered, in relationship to specific areas of life. 

 

In this approach we develop the capacity to unify and merge together areas of reality on a visceral embodied feeling level, whilst exploring and catalysing remembering of origin/true nature within what is occurring. We do this by exploring fixed identity that is keeping things apart, and come to embody true nature in unique expression that emerges through the union of polarity. The union of polarity creates a third thing, a new transcendant experience/state of true nature that is fully inclusive of all polarities, which we can experience as "me"/ ourselves. Polarity in this way is lived and expresses through form as the complete perfection of all things, in unification, without separation from origin. A key to the capacity to become the transcendant experience and the collapsing of identity, is the remembrance of each pole as origin/emptiness etc....essentially knowing oneself as what is deeper than the polarities. This is what gives rise to capacity for creativity, as you are willing to be re-born over and over, in continuity with the natural expression of infinity of the moment. 

 

When we apply this approach within the context of intimate relationship, we can study the direct experience emerging out of origin of the basic polarities of masculine and feminine. Often people are referring to masculinity and femininity in terms of fixed identity, as opposed to having a genuine awareness of the properties of their own masculinity and femininity. Simultaneously there is a lacking of capacity to consciously cultivate the poles, which emerges through recognising and becoming the ever changing expression of these poles as they arise out of infinity. This natural arisal is perfectly informing everything that is most basic and occurring to the moment. 

 

It is fixed identity that causes break downs, blockages and lack of creativity in relationship. Often partners identify themselves with one pole, at the exclusion of being transformed into something new, this creates cording and homeostasis in the relational experience that can only be changed, by one of the two being willing to transform their identity, that can catalyse the evolutionary change in the relationship and take it to the next level. Usually this expresses as greater capacity for beauty, love and play in the relational richness. 

 

If we are unable to become both masculine and feminine, if we have fixed experience of ourselves as that, if we are not aware of the ever changing expression of infinity relevant to the moment, our capacity to consciously create relationship is limited. Suffering appears at the level of identity and essentially highlights basic seperation on a subtle level, and can be addressed there without needing to go through dramatic & cathartic healing processes. 

Another component of relationship work is the more we embody what is occurring, and self refer, the faster we can transform the entire relational exchange and direct and guide our partners to the next creative expression in themselves by becoming the unified expression of that in ourselves. 

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We will:

 

*learn the basic approach of dynamic body centred meditation/exploration from a foundation of stillness
*learn how to explore/embody the visceral experience; the gestalt, kinesthetic, emotional and mental experience in the body.
*learn how to navigate intimate relationships creatively using this basic approach
*learn how to unify, heal/transform relational blockages within you, without our asking your partner to change or be different
*empower you to cultivate greater levels of femininity and masculinity and expand your capacity to create what you want and gain an understanding of the science/alchemy of relationship
*deepen your capacity for divine intimacy and pathways to create that with any partners
*ground in to emptiness, infinity, the unchanging
*explore the direct experience of masculine and feminine
*explore desire

I will be holding this course and Thessa will check in with the group at some point and lead some meditation work 

This course is for men and women. 

You do not need to be in partnership to attend this course, if you are single the cultivation will be concentrated within yourself, that will expand your capacity to create relationships you desire and or deepen your understanding of the gateway of aloneness. 

The approach will be delivered in a slow experiential series of journeys, individually and as a group. The group will be small, so we can be interactive, deeply engaged and I will sometimes work one to one with you as we go. We will ask that you come committed to practicing and applying what we share with you in your daily life, so you are able to receive the next meditations each week.

We are creating this online course as part of a series of work delivering our approach for cultivating intimate relationships. 

In November 2017 we will run a 4 day experiential intensive residential retreat in Old Fort, North Carolina on relationships, that will be led by Thessa Sophia and supported by myself. Any one attending must have worked with us before.

You do not have to do this 6 week course to attend the 4 day, but it is recommended to enhance your experience.

An invitation will be sent shortly for the 4 day relationship intensive. .
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Course Cost for the 6 Week Program

 

Normal Rate $255
Concession Rate $230 (you choose)

or

Normal Rate £200
Concession Rate £180

 

Payments can be made 

 

via Paypal plus 4% ~ fleurchetwynd@yahoo.co.uk


via bank transfer info:


via cheque (ask Fleur for details)

Banks Details ~ ask Fleur for info


Reference ~ online/name

 

Please send me an email or message on facebook to confirm you have paid and want to book a place, also with your time availability on mondays, please be as flexible as you can. 

 

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What to expect....

 

*2hours week of guided meditation and experiential work
*Recording of the group weekly session plus some bonus meditations (via dropbox)
*Group Page to share findings and comments and explorations on and where I and Thessa will post writings on intimate relating
*Available to answer one-to-one questions, give feedback/guidance through out the week. 
*Intimately held by me, through out the course and in your journey of integrating the material. 
*Occasional 20 minute check ins with me throughout the event

Maximum 10 places for this course

 

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Course Time & Date

 

We will arrange as a group the time of the course, dependant on time zones and peoples needs. I will divide the group if we have challenges in accommodating everyone. When you book on I will ask for your availability on certain days.

 

My email, contact info: core.expression@yahoo.co.uk

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